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How to Never Fail at Anything Ever Again

Holy hyperbole, batman! How to never fail at anything ever again. I am promising you the sun, the moon, and the stars here. Want to know the secret? Let’s get working! A world full of black and white with no grays would be a simpler world sometimes. Take math for instance; there really is no…

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6 Myths About Therapy Debunked

Being a therapist is a very interesting profession. Half of the people you run into don’t have a clue what you actually do and the other is positive they know exactly what you do (and they’re usually wrong). So what does a therapist do? I didn’t really know until I went through graduate school. Thanks…

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The Psychological Trick for Exercise Motivation

Ugggghhh. Exercise. I truly have a love/hate relationship with that particular activity. Just typing the word exercise reminds me that I have to do it tonight…and I dread it. If I allow myself to think about it too much I’ll talk myself out of doing it. My brain is basically that really convincing friend with…

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Slow Down Counselor

As counselors, whenever someone comes to see us we flip the switch and turn on the counselor brain. The counselor brain is a fascinating professional attachment that is installed in grad school and is great for a lot of things – problem solving, empathizing, reflecting, critical thinking, etc. There is one area, though, where the…

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The Profile of a Child Abuser

Child abuse is one of the most vile and heinous crimes I can think of. Nearly all people can agree that harming a child in any way is a terrible act; even hardened criminals serving serious prison time have a special disdain for those who have abused children. If we could just preemptively pick these…